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Sometimes, I forget to thank the people who make my life so happy in so many ways. Sometimes, I forget to tell them how much I really do appreciate them for being an important part of my life. Today is just another day, nothing special going on. So thank you, all of you, just for being here for me!
想要對方準確解讀你說的話,必須做到:
1.提供可利用的資訊;
2.確定資訊跟對方相關;
3.跟你互動的人必須察覺或注意到那項資訊;
4.正確使用資訊。我們可以站在對方的角度思考,哪些資訊對他有用、與他相關,再用簡潔有力、具故事性的架構包裝內容傳遞給對方。
人都有只想說自己想說的毛病,這時如果你當個聆聽者,就能從眾人之中脫穎而出。如果你不擅長聽人說話,那就從假裝聽人說話開始,就算是默默點頭也無妨。
作家村上春樹曾說:「在異性身邊好好聽她們說話,自然就會受歡迎。」
重點是,要把對方的事當做是自己的事一般重視。
人需要的不是「ask」,而是「listen」
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老細當然最想有一個又醒目又勤力的員工,但若現實需要退而求其次,工作表現可預料的員工也是一個選項。
在職場打滾,最重要知道哪些同事可以親近,哪些需要敬而遠之。這究竟也是在現實社會的生存之道。
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第一種——平衡型:既專業嚴謹,又能理解並以商業目的為重,靈活運用法律架構,在商業和法律之間盡量找到平衡點。無論談判中風吹雨打,堅持「勸合不勸分」,助有情人終成眷屬。
第二種——法癡型:專業嚴謹,死守法律條文,口頭禪是「不可以這樣,也不可以那樣,只能這樣」,癡迷於法律條款的滴水不漏,卻難以兼顧雙方商業目標的達成。談判桌上稍有風吹草動,就擺出律師款「勸分不勸合」,導致本想結婚的戀人漸行漸遠,最終分道揚鑣。
近年才發現,公司律師界竟有第三種類型——佛系型。不專業也不嚴謹,能佛系就什麼都不做,不起草文件(drafting),不標註文件(mark-ups),有些甚至連郵件都不自己寫,靠寄生下屬、同事或外部律師混日子。這類型,若能乖乖躺平,不擋著地球轉,也算無功亦無過。但若雲淡風輕時躺平,大風大浪時「還俗」,那就令人髮指了。
這類佛系還俗型律師,談判時,沒禮儀缺技巧,一味提高嗓門和挑釁情緒,還時常因沒做功課而「白送禮物」給對家(give away positions for nothing),把兩家都氣到吹胡子瞪眼,那才叫「低處未見低」的奇葩。之前少見這類型的律師,恐怕因為品種稀有,做內部律師或能混久些,若在外部律師行撈,恐怕早就被炒了。
「山外山,人外人」的律師。此人從律師行轉做內部律師,多年經驗,極其勤力——早起晚睡、隨叫隨到,很能幫到手——溝通協作能力強,法律意見平衡中肯,且靈活變通。與這位律師喝酒閑聊時,知薇發現她平日工作認真嚴肅,閑暇時吹水又十分風趣,感慨為不可多得的人才。聊到真情流露處,我問她為何如此投入努力,她答:「我愛法律文件,閱讀和修改它們對我是一種享受;找得我咨詢的人都是客戶,一如在律師行時的我待客戶如上帝,沒有比你們的事更重要的事了。」
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'Girl, Woman, Other’ is a wonderfully vivid portrayal of a group of interconnecting characters – mostly women, black and British – that provides a picture of contemporary Britain and looks back at the impact of Britain’s involvement in the colonial history of Africa and the Caribbean. Amma is a playwright, now in her fifties, whose new play ‘The Last Amazon of Dahomey’ is being premiered at The National Theatre in London. In attendance are her daughter Yazz and her old friends the rebellious Dominique and Shirley, a jaded teacher who has struggled for decades working in a funding-deprived London school. Carole is one of Shirley’s past students who almost threw away a bright future by mixing with wayward friends. Carole’s mother Bummi is a cleaner for a wealthy Camberwell lady and worries about her daughter’s lack of identity despite her obvious achievements. Penelope is a colleague of Shirley’s and Winsome is Shirley’s mother. La Tisha is a supermarket supervisor and Megan, who identifies as gender free, has changed their name to Morgan. Morgan is very close with their great grandmother Hattie. Her mother Grace was raised in a home for girls before going to work as a maid. She eventually met and married Joseph Ryendale and became the mistress of his family farm, which their daughter Hattie eventually inherits. This is a wonderfully hopeful story whereby everyone’s story passes on to another and takes us on a glorious journey through the lives of these very different, yet amazing people. Writer ….. Bernardine Evaristo Abridger ….. Patricia Cumper Reader ….. Pippa Bennett-Warner Producer ….. Celia de Wolff
Fibromyalgia (fy-bro-my-AL-ja) is a common and complex chronic pain disorder that causes widespread pain and tenderness to touch that may occur body wide or migrate over the body. Along with other symptoms, pain and tenderness wax and wane over time. Fibromyalgia (FM) affects people physically, mentally and socially. Approximately 10 million Americans (2-4%) have FM with a ratio of about 8 to 2, women over men. It occurs in people of all ages, including children. The literal translation of the word fibromyalgia is pain in the muscles, ligaments and tendons. But FM is much more than pain and presents with many other symptoms that vary from person to person.
Healthcare providers diagnose FM based on a combination of relevant symptoms, or how the person feels, including fatigue, tenderness, functionality, and overall well-being. Lab tests may be needed to rule out or diagnose co-existing conditions (i.e., lupus, thyroid hormone resistance, rheumatoid arthritis).
Symptoms of fibromyalgia can vary in intensity. Fatigue, sleep disturbances (sleep apnea and/or waking up unrefreshed), cognitive difficulties (memory problems or thinking clearly), and stiffness are the most prevalent symptoms reported. Additional common symptoms may include depression or anxiety, migraines, tension headaches, pelvic pain, irritable or overactive bladder, irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), TMJD (including tinnitus), and gastrointestinal reflux disease (GERD). Stress often worsens the related problems and symptoms. In a 2013 survey of people with fibromyalgia by Oregon Health and Sciences University and the National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association, symptoms were measured as well as the impact of fibromyalgia on daily living. (To read survey results, please click here.)
There is no cure for fibromyalgia. Multi-disciplinary approaches for management and relief of symptoms are often recommended. Medications, cognitive behavioral therapies, and gentle exercise are the most common combinations. In partnership with a healthcare provider, development of self-management strategies and long-term health goals may reduce the chronic symptoms and the frequency, duration, and intensity of periodic flares (rapid increase of symptoms). Cultural attitudes and stigmatization of people with chronic pain issues often cause people with fibromyalgia to become withdrawn from family and friends. Isolation and feeling alone to manage fibromyalgia can contribute to depression.
转发孟的演讲:谢谢大家。
首先,我要感谢首席大法官霍姆斯在神圣程序中的公正性,我也要感谢皇室的专业精神和加拿大政府的法治。要感谢很多人,感谢治安官的辛勤工作,我也感谢加拿大人民和媒体朋友的宽容,抱歉给法庭带来不便。还要感谢一系列善良的人们,是你们在我最困难的时候给了我帮助,你的每一个善良举动我都将永远铭记在心。
我谨向中国驻加拿大大使馆表示诚挚的感谢,感谢他们一贯的支持。
我为我敬业的律师、我们的公司的律师以及在这艰难时期一直在为公司蓬勃发展而努力的所有同事感到骄傲。
最后,向我的家人,我的朋友,向所有一路上为我提供关心和帮助的人。谢谢您。
在过去的三年里,我的生活发生了翻天覆地的变化,作为一个母亲、妻子和公司高管,这对我来说是个颠覆性的时刻,但我相信每一朵云都有一线希望。
这真是我一生中一次无价之宝的经历,我永远不会忘记在孤独的挣扎中,来自世界各地的人们对我的美好祝愿,困难越大,成长越大。
再次感谢你。
最后我想感谢我的祖国,还有祖国的人民对我的支持和帮助,这是我走到今天最大的支柱。
谢谢大家!
A man who works at the Golden Crown China Hotel as a security guard tested positive for the new coronavirus and has became the city’s 65th COVID-19 case, the Novel Coronavirus Response and Coordination Centre Coronavirus announced.
This new case, of a 27-year-old Nepalese man, is related to the 64th case which was reported earlier on Friday of a 31-year-old male resident of Turkish nationality who tested positive for COVID-19 in a nucleic acid test carried out Thursday night and had arrived in Macau, via Singapore, from Turkey, on September 18th.
After the detection of the 64th case imported into Macau, the health authorities said they immediately requested that the hotel’s security and cleaning staff as well as other workers to undergo the nucleic acid test.
Meanwhile, the acting Chief Executive has declared state of immediate prevention, starting from midnight as there is risk of a COVID-19 community outbreak following the 65th case, according to a press release issued by the Government Information Bureau.
Authorities also announced that starting from September 25, midnight, all outbound travellers must hold a proof of the latest 48 hours negative nucleic acid test
首先,她買了一個高仿Hermes手袋、18元人民幣的假鑽戒、假珍珠項鍊等等,天天把自己化妝成富家千金一樣;21天內,她在高級酒店大堂睡覺,機場和酒店免費洗澡度過,初時先去奢侈品品牌專賣店要紙袋,再拿去混入別人婚禮食自助餐,順手牽羊袋好麵包,假扮「行走的名媛」;有晚去海底撈扮等人,食免費小食,晚上直接在海式撈睡覺,由於別人看她一身打扮高貴,沒趕她走之餘,還端上甜品暖胃;最豪是混進拍賣會場,吃朱古力和鵝肝,吃了一盤不夠,叫廚師多拿一盤;有晚直接在宜家的豪華示範單位睡覺,早上到酒店偷吃早餐等等,食完就坐在宜家的「辦公室」做自己的工作,關鍵在於她一直手持名牌袋,並經常模仿任性小姐的動作,例如躺在沙發上看書等等,21天來沒人懷疑她的身份。
她把影片名為《瞬間所有制》上載網絡,她有以下幾點強調:
本人並不是名媛,是無產階級。顯得像個名媛 純粹是超長時間的準備 ➕高超演技。
並不想討論貧富差距及富人優待問題,更不想討論什麼是名媛。貧富差距以及階級固化的問題只是短暫的,人民群眾遲早走向共同富裕!
除非正經訪談、評論,很多營銷號一般都多重洗稿怎麼解釋博眼球怎麼來。很多觀眾友友誤解了,沒有關係,是我沒有解釋到位才會產生這樣的誤會。
檢查表的第一個部分:《了解公司的基本面》。
如果一間公司前景不錯、業務和經營方式容易理解,便可能值得投資者花時間鑽研和仔細調查。這條問題可以篩走一大班公司──如果一間公司過於複雜,或者透明度太低,那還是另覓對象好了。
這是個有趣的思考角度,投資者需要把自己當作是研究對象的行政總裁,設想知識如此淵博的人會審視哪些範疇,以及鑽研得幾深入才滿足。
如果一間公司無法以簡單的話語來形容,則意味著它太複雜,不易掌握,又或者是產品太專門,行外人難以理解。
這是一條極之基本,但又非問不可,而且必須能給出有力答案的問題。有些公司通過錯綜複雜的交易網絡賺錢,投資者未必能輕易看出他們究竟如何盈利。
營商環境不斷在改變和發展,如果一間公司一成不變,就注定失敗。投資者應了解公司這些年來是如何順應新的趨勢或挑戰作出調整,其對策又是否成功?
上述問題與投資具有不同法律、監管、政治或經營風險的國家有關。投資者應行多一步,對公司獲得可觀收入的每個司法管轄區進行風險評估。
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萬里富直播頻道的很多觀眾都對筆者的投資檢查表感興趣,故此我寫了這篇文章。
目前,筆者的投資檢查表包含10條問題,旨在從業務質素、增長、復原能力和抗逆力的角度評估正在考慮加入投資組合的企業。筆者之所以說是「目前」,原因是我會一邊學習和提升投資技巧,一邊持續改良投資檢查表。
作為分析師,筆者出於幾個原因而使用投資檢查表,包括:
在投資檢查表的10條問題中,每條問題均可以用「是」、「否」或「也許」作答。 回答「是」得1分,「否」得0分,「也許」得0.5分,因此企業最多可以於10分中全取10分。此外,在10條主要問題下,還設有多條分題和小框架,以協助筆者思考主要問題。由於分題的作用是提供回答主要問題時的思考方向,筆者未必每次都會鉅細無遺地列出答案。這個分析架構不單是簡單的框架和投資信心評級系統,也是嚴謹和嚴格的投資工具。
在制定投資檢查表的多條問題時,筆者向我最崇拜和深入了解的多名投資專家取經,包括萬里富聯合創辦人湯娒・加拿(Tom Gardner)和大衛・加拿(David Gardner)、NZS Capital的Brad Slingerlend和Brinton Johns、Polen Capital的Dan Davidowitz、Damon Ficklin、Tucker Walsh和Rayna Lesser Hannaway、SF Value Capital的Rishi Gosalia、Compound Money Fund的Michael Shearn,以及Ensemble Capital的Sean Stannard-Stockton。
筆者的選股決定和投資組合管理(或持倉規模)受到投資檢查表所影響,不過,如果我有意投資的股票在檢查表中暫時得分不高,筆者仍然可能會買入股票。簡單來說,筆者會大手投資得分較高和投資信心較強的企業,至於現時得分不高,可是筆者看好並深信將會一飛沖天的企業,或者得分不低但估值極高的公司,筆者會買入較少股份。
上文簡單介紹了筆者的投資檢查表,接下來,我們將會看看當中用作評估優質增長股的10條問題:
只有當企業在優質增長股檢查表的10條問題中取得高分,筆者才會考慮下列兩條有關估值的問題:
假使企業得分較高,而且估值合理,筆者便會一次過買入佔整體投資組合約3%或以上的股票。相反,要是現時企業在框架下得分不高,可是筆者相當看好這隻股票,或者得分雖高,但估值亦高得離譜,那麼我將會買入佔整體組合1%或更少的股份。
上述的投資檢查表是筆者挑選股票和管理投資組合(或控制倉位)的依據,筆者相當喜歡使用這類簡單易懂的多功能框架。
在看過上文的說明後,相信大家能夠更容易構思和制定屬於自己的投資檢查表。筆者希望,在分析股票時,就算投資者只參考了上述其中一條主要問題或分題,都能因此變得更醒目、更開心和更富有。如若筆者的願望未能成真,那麼,至少本文也能鼓勵萬里富直播頻道的觀眾討論投資檢查表和框架的話題。 您可以按此收看節目,一起了解萬里富的投資之道!