Elbert Einstein Quotes

 

【智慧箴言】英女王的十大名言，論盡責任、奉獻、愛、勇氣、民主

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寬容是幸福婚姻關鍵

 

菲臘親王於1997年金婚紀念日曾說過：

「寬容是幸福婚姻的必要元素。在順境的時候，寬容或許不太重要，但當逆境來臨，寬容是極為重要的。」

To live

 

I Choose To Live, Not Just Exist

15 Ways to Live, and Not Merely Exist (marcandangel.com)

1. Appreciate the great people and things in your life. – Sometimes we don’t notice the things others do for us until they stop doing them.  Don’t be like that.  Be grateful for what you have, who loves you, and who cares for you.  You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they’re no longer beside you.  Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you.  Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it to live.  Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
2. Ignore other people’s negativity. – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it.  Ignore unconstructive, hurtful commentary.  No one has the right to judge you.  They may have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going through.  You do not have control over what others say; but you do have control over whether or not you allow them to say these things to you.  You alone can deny their poisonous words from invading your heart and mind.
3. Forgive those who have hurt you. – I forgive people, but that doesn’t mean I trust them.  I just don’t have time to hate people who hurt me, because I’m too busy loving people who love me.  The first to apologize is the bravest.  The first to forgive is the strongest.  The first to move forward is the happiest.  Be brave.  Be strong.  Be happy.  Be free.
4. Be who you really are. – If you’re lucky enough to have something that makes you different from everybody else, don’t change.  Uniqueness is priceless.  In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self.  And when they laugh at you for being different, laugh back at them for being the same.  It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but it’s worth it.  Being YOU is worth it!
5. Choose to listen to your inner voice. – Life is a courageous journey or nothing at all.  We cannot become who we want to be by continuing to do exactly what we’ve been doing.  Choose to listen to your inner voice, not the jumbled opinions of everyone else.  Do what you know in your heart is right for YOU.  It’s your road, and yours alone.  Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.  And be sure to appreciate every day of your life.  Good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience, and the worst days give you the best lessons.  Read Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No.
6. Embrace change and enjoy your life as it unfolds. – The hardest part about growing is letting go of what you were used to, and moving on with something you’re not.  Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting, and have faith that things will work out.  Laugh at the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy your life as it unfolds.  You might not end up exactly where you intended to go, but eventually you will arrive precisely where you need to be.
7. Choose your relationships wisely. – The best relationships are not just about the good times you share, they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.  And loving someone isn’t just about saying it every day, it’s showing it every day in every way.  Relationships must be chosen wisely.  Don’t rush love.  Wait until you truly find it.  Don’t let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with.  Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.  A great relationship is worth waiting for.
8. Recognize those who love you. – The most memorable people in your life will be the ones who loved you when you weren’t very loveable.  Pay attention to who these people are in your life, and love them back, even when they aren’t acting loveable.
9. Love yourself too. – If you can love children, in spite of the messes they make; your mother, in spite of her tendency to nag; your father, even though he’s too opinionated; your sibling, even though she’s always late; your friend, even though he often forgets to return what he borrows, then you know how to love imperfect people, and can surely love yourself.
10. Do things your future self will thank you for. – What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.  What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.  Make sure it’s worthwhile.
11. Be thankful for all the troubles you don’t have. – There are two ways of being rich: One is to have all you want, the other is to be satisfied with what you have.  Accept and appreciate things now, and you’ll find more happiness in every moment you live.  Happiness comes when we stop complaining about the troubles we have and offer thanks for all the troubles we don’t have.  And remember, you have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life.  Read The How of Happiness.
12. Leave enough time for fun. – Sometimes you need to take a few steps back to see things clearly.  Never let your life become so filled with work, your mind become so crammed with worry, or your heart become so jammed with old hurts or anger, that there’s no room left in them for fun, for awe, or for joy.
13. Enjoy the little things in life. – The best things in life are free.  There is absolute joy and wonder to be had in the simplest of moments.  Watching the sunset over the horizon or spending time with a family member. Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.
14. Accept the fact that the past is not today. – Don’t let the past steal your present and future from you.  You might not be proud of all the things you’ve done in the past, but that’s okay.  The past is not today.  The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased.  It can only be accepted.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.
15. Let go when you must. – It’s not always about trying to fix something that’s broken.  Some relationships and situations just can’t be fixed.  If you try to force them back together, things will only get worse.  Sometimes it’s about starting over and creating something better.  Strength shows not only in the ability to persist, but in the ability to start over again with a smile on your face and passion in your heart.

活在當下的定義

 「每個人的人生都會有高高低低的起伏，

沒有一定是順利的，

人生有經歷過巔峰，

也會跌到過低谷，

灰色也可轉為有色彩的人生。

要保持一個樂觀積極的心態，

感恩人生的每一天，

努力做好每一個明天，

腳踏實地走好每一步，

也許成功會遲到，但它決不會缺席。」

張兆輝

Quote

 The most popular persons are those who can shift the state of others for better.

自知者明

 

Quotes

“​Fashion fades, style is eternal.”

時尚會褪色，風格才是永恆。

#Miuccia Prada 繆西亞·普拉達

“A respectable appearance is sufficient to make people more interested in your soul.”

一個得體的外表，總能有效引起別人對於探究你內在靈魂的興趣。

#Coco Chanel 可可·香奈兒

“A girl should be two things：classy and fabulous.”

每個女孩都該做到兩點：品位，以及光芒四射

#Yves Saint Laurent 伊夫·聖羅蘭

“What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today, when human contacts are so quick. Fashion is instant language.”

第一印象決定一切。你穿什麼，是你向世界展示你自己的樣子，特別是現今社會，人與人接觸的時間很短暫，裝扮是迎面而來的語言。

＃Christian Dior 克里斯汀·迪奧

“There is no such thing as an ugly woman – there are only the ones who do not know how to make themselves attractive.”

世界上沒有醜女人，只有不知道如何展現魅力之人。 

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Thoughts for life journey

人生最痛苦的事，莫過于堅持了不該堅持的事；

人生最後悔的事，莫過於輕易的放棄了不該放棄的事；

人生最遺憾的事，莫過於錯過了不該錯過的人。

人生最珍貴的東西不是得不到的東西，而是眼前所擁有的東西；

人生最美好的東西，不是已失去的東西，而是現在所把握的東西。

只有先改變自己的態度，才能改變人生的高度。

在抱怨自己賺錢少之前，先努力，學著讓自己值錢。

學歷代表過去，學習能力才代表將來。

有些事情不是看到希望才去堅持，而是堅持了才看得到希望。

你所做的事情，也許暫時看不到成功，但不要灰心，你不是沒有成長，而是在紮根。

現實和理想之間，不變的是跋涉，暗淡與輝煌之間，不變的是開拓。

亦舒告誡女人的6句話，句句經典

 

【Anne Hathaway】女神正能量語錄：生活就是讓未知成為美好

 「幸福，是先學會哭，才懂得笑。」

Life for me these days is a lot about letting the unknown be wonderful.

You cannot live your life to please others. The choice must be yours.

I think relationships are work, but love is a gift.

Whatever you are made of, be the best of that.

But you have to remember in life that there's a positive to every negative and a negative to every positive.

I had a dream. And it came true.

The best part about working is that you never know what you're going to learn when you start out.

Love is a human experience, not a political statement.

I see myself as improving. I think I'm a very curious person, and I like that about myself .

Everybody has bad relationships and, at the end of the day, they are just a great way to set yourself up for a good relationship.

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立腳 高懐

 

給自己留下一個漂亮的身影

 

若無法離開就停止抱怨，若選擇離去更不要抱怨

39句座右銘，選一句送給努力奮鬥的自己吧

 1．成功是動詞，不是名詞！

２．當你跌到谷底時，那正表示，你只能往上，不能往下！

３．不同的信念，決定不同的命運！

４．成功這件事，自己才是老闆！

５．暗自傷心，不如立即行動。

６．挫折時，要像大樹一樣，被砍了，還能再長；也要像雜草一樣，雖讓人踐踏，但還能勇敢地活下去。

７．不要以為還存在，就永遠不會失去。

８．隨隨便便浪費的時間，再也不能贏回來。

９．成功是優點的發揮，失敗，是缺點的積累顯示屏。

１0．生命是罐頭，膽量是開罐器。

１1．只要有鬥志，不怕沒戰場。

１2．人沒有選擇的出生環境的權利，卻有改變生活環境的權利。

１3．人不冒險，枉為一生。

１4．最困難的時候，就是距離成功不遠了。

１5．再多一點努力，就多一點成功。

１6．不要看我失去什麼，只看我還擁有什麼？

１7．在你內心深處，還有無窮的潛力簡訊，有一天當你回首看時，你就會知道這絕對是真的。

18．成功，往往住在失敗的隔壁！

19. 生命不是要超越別人，而是要超越自己。

20 . 命運是那些懦弱和認命的人發明的！

２1．人生最大的喜悅是每個人都說你做不到，你卻完成它了！

２2．世界上大部分的事情，都是覺得不太舒服的人做出來的。

２3．昨天是失效的支票，明天是未兌現的支票，今天才是現金。

２4．一直割捨不下一件事，永遠成不了!

２5．掃地，要連心地一起掃！

２6．不為模糊不清的未來擔憂，只為清清楚楚的現在努力。

２7．當你停止嘗試時，就是失敗的時候。

２8．心靈激情不在，就可能被打敗。

２9．凡事不要說」我不會」或」不可能」，因為你根本還沒有去做！

３0．成功不是靠夢想和希望，而是靠努力和實踐。

３1．只有在天空最暗的時候，才可以看到天上的星星。

３2．上帝說：你要什麼便取什麼，但是要付出相當的代價。

３3．現在站在什麼地方不重要，重要的是你往什麼方向移動？

３4．寧可辛苦一陣子，不要苦一輩子。

３5．為成功找方法，不為失敗找藉口。

３6．不斷反思自己的弱點，是讓自己獲得更好成功的優良習慣。

３7．垃圾桶哲學：別人不要做的事，我揀來做！

３8．不一定要做最大的，但要做最好的。

３9．死的方式由上帝決定，活的方式由自己決定！

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真言

“別抬頭看夜空繁星，低頭看看踩在泥濘裡的雙腳吧，那才是現實。 ”

“你相信命運嗎？命運沒甚麼大不了的，當你需要的時候就會出現在你面前，那就是命運。"

“真正痛過的人，才懂得真的痛苦。”

“唯有將不好記憶埋藏在內心深處過活的人，才能變得更堅強、更熱情、更有韌性，只有那樣的人才會得到幸福。”

“不要忘記克服過去，如果你克服不了，你就只是個靈魂長不大的孩子。”

“時尚就是要刻苦並固執己見。”

“約定？那種東西就像擤過鼻涕的衛生紙，用完了就要丟掉。”

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Quotes of 張愛玲

張愛玲

1、因為愛過，所以慈悲；因為懂得，所以寬容。

As I have been in love before, therefore I am mercy;  I understood, therefore I am generous.

2、如果你認識從前的我，那麼你就會原諒現在的我。

If you know the past me, then, you would forgive the present me. 

3、於千萬人之中遇見你所要遇見的人，於千萬年之中，時間的無涯的荒野裡，沒有早一步，也沒有晚一步，剛巧趕上了，那也沒有別的話可說，惟有輕輕地問一聲：「噢，你也在這裡嗎？」

During the millions of years, in the time of  wilderness, among a sea of people, neither to be late nor early,coincidently it is just in time, I encounter the one I need to meet. I could not find any words to say, all I could to do is to ask gently, "Hi, you are also here?"

4、人總是在接近幸福時倍感幸福，在幸福進行時卻患得患失。

We always find ourselves with more happiness when we are close to it, but when we are in happiness, we will afraid that it will lose.

5、見了他，她變得很低很低，低到塵埃裡。但她心裡是歡喜的，從塵埃裡開出花來。

Seeing him, she transformed herself in a very lower position, lower to the dust.  At the bottom of her heart, she was glad, and her flowers came out from the dust.

6、我要你知道，在這個世界上總有一個人是等著你的，不管在什麼時候，不管在什麼地方，反正你知道，總有這麼個人。

I want you to know, in this world, there is always one person who is waiting for you, no matter when and where. You should know anyway, there is always such a person. 

7、你問我愛你值不值得，其實你應該知道，愛就是不問值得不值得。

You ask me if it is worth it to love you, you should know the answer, for love, we should not ask whether it is worth it or not, ! 

8、笑，全世界便與你同聲笑，哭，你便獨自哭。

When you laugh, the world will join you, but when you cry, you have to cry alone. 

9、長的是磨難，短的是人生。

Aging is suffering, while dying young is a life. 

10、生命是一襲華美的袍，爬滿了蚤子。

Life is a gorgeous robe, covered with lots of fleas.

才女的經典語句

張愛玲

1、因為愛過，所以慈悲；因為懂得，所以寬容。
As I have been in love before, therefore I am mercy;  I understood, therefore I am generous.

2、如果你認識從前的我，那麼你就會原諒現在的我。
If you know the past me, then, you would forgive the present me. 

3、於千萬人之中遇見你所要遇見的人，於千萬年之中，時間的無涯的荒野裡，沒有早一步，也沒有晚一步，剛巧趕上了，那也沒有別的話可說，惟有輕輕地問一聲：「噢，你也在這裡嗎？」
During the millions of years, in the time of  wilderness, among a sea of people, neither to be late nor early,coincidently it is just in time, I encounter the one I need to meet. I could not find any words to say, all I could to do is to ask gently, "Hi, you are also here?"

4、人總是在接近幸福時倍感幸福，在幸福進行時卻患得患失。
We always find ourselves with more happiness when we are close to it, but when we are in happiness, we will afraid that it will lose.

5、見了他，她變得很低很低，低到塵埃裡。但她心裡是歡喜的，從塵埃裡開出花來。
Seeing him, she made herself in a very lower position, lower to the earth.  At the bottom of her heart, she was glad, and her flowers came out from the earth.

6、我要你知道，在這個世界上總有一個人是等著你的，不管在什麼時候，不管在什麼地方，反正你知道，總有這麼個人。
I want you to know, in this world, there is always one person who is waiting for you, no matter when and where. You should know anyway, there is always such a person. 

7、你問我愛你值不值得，其實你應該知道，愛就是不問值得不值得。
You ask me if it is worth it to love you, you should know the answer, for love, we should not ask whether it is worth it or not, ! 

8、笑，全世界便與你同聲笑，哭，你便獨自哭。
When you laugh, the world will join you, but when you cry, you have to cry alone. 

9、長的是磨難，短的是人生。
Aging is suffering, while dying young is a life. 

10、生命是一襲華美的袍，爬滿了蚤子。
Life is a gorgeous robe, covered with lots of fleas.

林徽因

1、答案很長，我準備用一生的時間來回答，你準備要聽了嗎？
The answer is very long, and I am ready to use my whole life 's time to answer it, are you ready to listen? 

2、你是一樹一樹的花開，是燕在梁間呢喃。你是愛，是暖，是希望，你是人間的四月天。

3、風輕雲淡，歲月安好。

4、我情願化成一片落葉，讓風吹雨打到處飄零；或流雲一朵，在澄藍天，和大地再沒有些牽連。

5、你給了我生命中不能承受之重，我將用我的一生來報答你。

6、難怪她說永恆是人們造的謊。

7、愛的，不愛的。一直在告別中。

8、昨天又昨天，美還逃不出時間的威嚴。

9、從沒有人說過八月什麼話，夏天過去了，也不到秋天。

10、現在連秋雲黃葉又已失落去遼遠裡，剩下灰色的長空一片透徹的寂寞，你忍聽冷風獨語

三毛

1、一個人至少擁有一個夢想，有一個理由去堅強。心若沒有棲息的地方，到哪裡都是在流浪。

2、如果你給我的，和你給別人的是一樣的，那我就不要了。

3、我來不及認真地年輕，待明白過來時，只能選擇認真地老去。

4、每想你一次，天上飄落一粒沙，從此形成了撒哈拉。每想你一次，天上就掉下一滴水，於是形成了太平洋。

三毛

1、一個人至少擁有一個夢想，有一個理由去堅強。心若沒有棲息的地方，到哪裡都是在流浪。

2、如果你給我的，和你給別人的是一樣的，那我就不要了。

3、我來不及認真地年輕，待明白過來時，只能選擇認真地老去。

4、每想你一次，天上飄落一粒沙，從此形成了撒哈拉。每想你一次，天上就掉下一滴水，於是形成了太平洋。

5、或許，我們終究會有那麼一天：牽著別人的手，遺忘曾經的他。

6、歲月極美，在於它必然的流逝。春花、秋月、夏日、冬雪。

7、我笑，便面如春花，定是能感動人的，任他是誰。

8、夢想，可以天花亂墜，理想，是我們一步一個腳印踩出來的坎坷道路。

9、從容不迫的舉止，比起咄咄逼人的態度，更能令人心折。

10、走得突然，我們來不及告別。這樣也好，因為我們永遠不告別。

席慕容

1、我總是躲在夢與季節的深處，聽花與黑夜唱盡夢魘，唱盡繁華，唱斷所有記憶的來路。

2、我只是個戲子，在別人的故事裡，流著自己的淚。

3、青春是一本太倉促的書，我們含著淚，一讀再讀。

4、在這人世間，有些路是非要單獨一個人去面對，單獨一個人去跋涉的，路再長再遠，夜再黑再暗，也得獨自默默地走下去。

5、青春，如同一場盛大而華麗的戲，我們有著不同的假面，扮演著不同的角色，演繹著不同的經歷，卻有著相同的悲哀。

6、有情不必終老，暗香浮動恰好。

7、我終於相信，每一條走上來的路，都有它不得不那樣跋涉的理由。每一條要走下去的路，都有它不得不那樣選擇的方向。

8、如果一開始就是一種錯誤，那麼為什麼，它會錯的那樣美麗。

9、所有的悲歡都已化為灰燼，任世間哪一條路，我都不能與你同行。

10、原來歲月並不是真的逝去，它只是從我們的眼前消失，卻轉過來躲在我們的心裡，然後再慢慢地來改變我們的容貌。

楊絳

1、你的問題主要在於讀書不多而想得太多

2、走好選擇的路，別選擇好走的路，你才能擁有真正的自己。

3、剛開始是假裝堅強，後來就真的堅強了。

4、人間不會有單純的快樂，快樂總夾雜著煩惱和憂慮，人間也沒有永遠。

5、惟有身處卑微的人，最有機緣看到世態人情的真相。一個人不想攀高就不怕下跌，也不用傾軋排擠，可以保其天真，成其自然，潛心一誌完成自己能做的事。

6、他發願說：「從今以後，咱們只有死別，不再生離。」

7、我們這個家，很樸素；我們三個人，很單純。我們與世無求，與人無爭，只求相聚在一起，相守在一起，各自做力所能及的事。碰到困難，我們一同承擔，困難就不復困難；我們相伴相助，不論什麼苦澀艱辛的事，都能變得甜潤。我們稍有一點快樂，也會變得非常快樂。

8、見她之前，從未想結婚；娶她之後，我從未後悔。

9、我是一個老人，盡說些老話，對於時代，我是一個落隊者，我沒什麼良言貢獻給現代婚姻，只是在物質至上的時代潮流下，想提醒現在的年輕人，男女結合的最最重要的是感情，是雙方互相理解的程度，理解深才能互相欣賞和吸引，才能互相支持，互相鼓勵，才能兩情相悅，門當戶對以及其它，並不重要。

10、說老實話，我覺得與其罵人，寧可挨罵。因為罵人是自我表演，挨罵是看人家有意識或無意識的表演－－表演他們對我的心意，而無意中流露的真情，往往是很耐人尋味的。