12 truths I learned from life and writing | Anne Lamott

 1. All truth is a paradox, life is both a precious gift and so heartbreaking at the same time. 2. Almost everything will work again if you unplug if for a few minutes, including you. 3. There’s nothing outside of you that will help you in any lasting way unless you’re waiting for an organ. 4. Everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy and scared. 5. Chocolate with 75% cacao is not actually a food. 6. Writing - Every writer writes really terrible first drafts, but the keep their butt in the chair. 7. Publication and temporary creative success are something you have to recover from, they can hurt and damage you. 8. Families - Families are hard hard hard no matter how cherished and astonishing they may also be. 9. Food - Try to do a little better. 10. Grace - Grace is spiritual WD40 - God loves us all the same. 11. God just means “goodness” - Its not that scary. A good name for God is “Not Me.” 12. “Wow” and “Yikes” - It’s so hard to bear when a few people that you can’t live without die. You’ll never get over the losses. You’re not supposed to.